ada seorang wanita Muslim masuk untuk menunaikan solat maghrib.. dia berpakaian seksi, baju ketat lengen pendek dan tidak bertudung.. masuk ja dalam surau, dia meletakkan beg dan mengambil wudhu'.. ada seorang ibu yang juga masuk untuk menunaikan solat membawa anaknya, umur dalam lingkungan 5 - 6 tahun.. anak kecil itu memandang wanita seksi itu tanpa jemu, dari dia memakai telekung hingga dia selesai solat dan lipat kain telekung tersebut untuk di simpan dalam begnya.. sedang wanita seksi itu memakai make up di cermin surau, anak kecil yang memerhatikan wanita itu sejak tadi, berpaling dan bertanya kepada ibunya.
Anak : ibu, kenapa akak tu tak pakai tudung? bukan orang Islam kena pakai tudung untuk tutup aurat ka?(wanita seksi itu mendengar soalan anak itu tetapi tak menghiraukannya)
Ibu : *senyum* cuba tanya akak tu tengok
Anak : akakkkkkk, kenapa akak tak pakai tudung?
Wanita seksi : sebab itu pilihan akak.. walau akak tak pakai tudung, tapi akak sembahyang.. Tuhan Maha Mengetahui, Dia tahu akak orang baik..(jawab sambil tahan marah)
Anak : oooo.. kenapa akak pakai telekung masa akak solat?
Wanita seksi : sebab wajib tutup aurat masa solat, klau tak, solat tak sah..
Anak : oooo.. kenapa akak solat?
Wanita seksi : hmph, sebab solat tu kan wajib.. kalau tak buat, dosa! masuk neraka nanti.. *sambil jawab sambil pakai eye liner*
Anak : *terdiam seketika* tapi kak, menutup aurat tu pun wajib.. kalau tak buat, berdosa, masuk neraka jugak.. kenapa akak kumpul pahala dengan solat tapi lepas tu tambah dosa dengan tak tutup aurat? *muka budak nih, penuh keinginan untuk tahu.. soalan yang ikhlas dari hati*
ketika itu, semua mata dalam surau tertumpu pada wanita seksi tersebut, menunggu jawapan daripada dia.. wanita itu pula kaku di depan cermin, terdiam membatu.. dia kemas2 barang make up dan bersedia untuk keluar dari surau.. anak itu pandang dengan penuh tanda tanya.. kenapa akak tak nak jawab soalan saya?
sebelum melangkah keluar, wanita seksi itu memandang ke arah anak kecil itu, sambil tersenyum.. dengan nada perlahan, "adik, terima kasih.." :)
**** kadang-kadang teguran dari orang lain adalah teguran dari Allah.. jangan terlalu cepat untuk tak menghiraukannya.. kita tak tahu mati kita bila, takut nanti tak sempat nak bertaubat.. sekadar perkongsian bersama..
Suami : dah pakai handsock? jangan sampai nampak tangan kalau lengan baju terselak nanti..
Isteri : dah pakai, sayang
Suami : stokin? kaki juga aurat.. dosa awak adalah dosa saya.. dah pakai stokin belum?
Isteri : *tengok kaki* dah pakai dah..
Suami : Alhamdulillah, comelnya isteri saya.. *kucup dahi isteri* :)
Assalamualaikum ya ahli syurga! *insyaAllah*
seronok bila ada suami yang tolong jaga dan ingatkan isteri tentang aurat.. sesungguhnya auratku ini adalah hak untuk suamiku sahaja.. secara jujurnya, aku time single dan hingusan dulu, tak kisah sangat tentang menutup aurat dengan sempurna.. handsock dan stokin langsung tak suka pakai, panas dan rimas lah!.. kena marah banyak kali dengan Umi dan kak Ijah pun, kadang-kadang masuk telinga kanan keluar telinga kiri.. betul, tak tipu.. Umi banyak kali tegur, jangan pakai baju tapi singkat dan menampakkan bentuk bontot, jangan pakai cardigan atau sweater yang menampakkan bentuk lengan, tu bukan menutup aurat, tu membalut aurat saja.. tapi aku degil, hati keras, iman tak kuat, langsung tak endahkan nasihat-nasihat Umi yang lebih lama hidup di dunia nih.. Umi selalu nasihatkan anak-anak dia, ingat Allah yang selalu tengok gerak geri kita, ingat dan kesian kat abah dalam kubur kena pukul disebabkan dosa-dosa kami.. mula-mula masa dengar, nangis la dan taubat kejap.. tapi lama-lama buat balik sebab dah menjadi kebiasaan kan.. alah bisa tegal biasa.. hahaha *okay tak lawak*
dulu sibuk mahukan perhatian daripada lelaki, mahu lelaki paling dan tengok kecantikan diri *tangan di dada mata ke atas* dan mahukan pandangan kagum dari kaum wanita yang lain.. okay fine, bukan pandangan kagum, menyampah ada lah, minah prasan ja aku nih.. hahaha.. masa tu,baju semua ketat dan ikut bentuk tubuh badan, tudung yang jarang dan tak tutup dada dengan sempurna, stokin tak pakai, lengan baju disenteng sesuka hati bila hari panas.. budget dalam otak, asalkan pakai tudung, aku dah tutup aurat! dulu aku bangga pakai baju ketat-ketat sebab nampak kurus.. tak kisah, langsung tak kisah kalau Allah murka dengan aku, yang penting masa tu, aku selesa, aku bergaya, aku cantik!.. tapi bukan di mata Allah Maha Esa.. bila pikir pikir balik, rasa macam nak nangis ja.. tak sangka aku jahil macam tu dulu.. banyak betul dosa-dosa yang aku kumpul dulu, kesian abah dalam kubur.. ya lah, kan dosa seorang anak ditanggung oleh bapanya selagi belum berkahwin..disebabkan aku, abah diseksa dalam kubur.. ya Allah, ampunilah dosa hambaMu ini, janganlah seksa abah lagi.. TTT^TTT
aku tak cakap aku nih terbaik, aku memangnya bukan yang terbaik kerana aku masih mencuba mencari keredhaan Allah.. aku masih dalam proses untuk belajar menutup aurat dengan sempurna, dan aku bersyukur sebab dapat suami yang membimbing aku ke arah yang benar.. tak tak, aku bukan nak riak atau bangga *eh bukan maksud dia sama ka?* tapi sekadar sesuatu yang ingin dikongsikan dengan semua, kaum Hawa terutamanya, bahawa dosa anda tidak menutup aurat dengan sempurna, ditanggung oleh ayah/bapa/daddy/abah/babah atau apa2 panggilan untuk your father lah.. itu sebelum anda berkahwin.. lepas dah akad nikah dan disebut "sah" oleh saksi-saksi, maka dosa auratmu ditanggung oleh suamimu.. tak sayangkah anda dengan suami anda? dia ada banyak lagi bebanan tanggungjawab lepas korang kahwin, tanggungjawab kamu dengan Allah pun nak bagi dekat dia jugak ka? eh ehhhh, jangan ingat kamu takkan masuk neraka klau dosa kamu ditanggung suami.. klau suami dah suruh pakai tudung dan tutup aurat dengan sempurna, namun kamu ingkar, nerakalah destinasi kamu nanti.. dan kamu juga kaum Adam, tidakkah kamu sayang akan anak/isteri/adik/kakak kamu? tanggungjawab mendidik/menegur/mengubah mereka adalah di tangan kamu.. dosa kamu jugak kalau tak tegur..
kamu tahu? tahu kan? saya juga tahu.. jadi marilah kita sama-sama menasihati dan mengingati masing-masing tentang tuntutan agama untuk kita menutup aurat dengan sempurna.. buat kaum Hawa, jom buat wardrobe change; labuh, longgar, dan menutupi dada! biar nampak gemuk kerana berpakaian labuh dan longgar dari nampak kurus kerana berpakaian ketat seakan-akan berbogel.. tak ada guna bentuk body lawa kalau akhirnya kamu masuk ke neraka juga.. ingat ya, auratmu adalah untuk suamimu sahaja.. dan sejujur sejujurnya, itu adalah nikmat yang mutlak dan manis.. ^_^
isn't it sweet, when you leave the house to go to work in the morning, you look at your partner and he is wearing a shirt in the same colour like what you're wearing? =')
Assalamualaikum and hello awesome peeps! you know how a woman can be insecure, right? be it because of her looks, her weight or how she carries herself, a woman rarely leaves the house feeling fully confident.. looking at ourselves in the mirror, we tend to put ourselves down by saying our skin is too dark, there is too much fat on our tummy, there's too much blackheads and pimple scars on our face, and the list goes on.. all this will eventually affect our confidence level, and gradually result in us being self conscious.. not good right?
well, it's the same for me.. when I was younger (ie before and during my Diploma days) my skin was fair and flawless up the extend my friends were asking me what I was using, eating, putting on my face to make it so nice.. honestly, it wasn't anything special, just washing my face 3 - 4 times a day with facial cleanser.. good genes I guess.. but this all changed when I entered my Degree level.. I started becoming allergic to eating chicken, nuts and seafood stuff like prawn and squid.. acne pops out like daisies after a rainy day on my face and I started feeling less and less confident when talking to people in close distance.. hey, I don't want to scare them off with my zits! make up can only do so much in covering up the scars and being a person who sweat bucket loads, make up is not my best choice..
my skin got a bit better over time but then there were now acne scars and my skin would sometimes be too dry or too oily, hard to predict.. I was not happy and confident at all.. my husband doesn't mind how I look, he loves me regardless of scars or pimples, but he knows I'm not confident with myself.. hence he encourages me to find solutions to fix this problem of mine.. so while surfing Facebook, I came across this product on one of those blogshops.. I read through all the testimonials, searched on Google, asked users and shop owners about it, and I finally was convinced.. it was interesting enough and cheap enough for me to give a try.. and so I did..
So I bought it for RM90.. the original price is RM 125, it was on promotion.. there's 60 chewable tablets that lasts for 2 months, I only have to eat 1 tablet per day after dinner before going to bed and make sure I drink plenty of water.. I've been eating it for a week now and I noticed that my skin has gotten fairer, skin less oily, scars starting to fade.. after morning of my third day, as I was getting ready for work, my husband looked at me and asked, "have you already wore your make up?" I said,"no, I'm about to get ready, I just washed my face." he paused for a while, "oh, you look different, good different.".. :) alhamdulillah, that was a good change.. but then a few days after that, my period came, hence my face started popping up pimples again.. sigh~ looks like I have to work harder on this, and probably find other supplements as well.. anyway, I haven't taken any photos yet tho, gonna wait till I've used it for a month.. if it's good as the photos of the other users above, I might continue it, insyaAllah..
Assalamualaikum and hello awesome peeps! yeah, I know, if based on my previous post, my weekend was supposed to be awesome.. if you haven't read that post, go do that first, coz this is a follow up post.. hohoho.. okay, so you're done reading? so I can continue? you sure? okay? okay!
so my first event on Saturday would've been the Reach Out Youth Volunteer Gathering at Taylor's Uni Lakeside campus where I told you I'd be meeting with Chester See.. coz he was here in Malaysia, and I soooo very much adore his voice and his sense of humour.. yeah, I know, I'm married, but a girl can still have crushes that wouldn't lead to anything too.. hahaha.. don't get get me wrong, I am extremely happy to be married, never forget that.. so where was I? oh yeah, Chester at Taylor's.. so yeah, I never made it to the event.. my husband was not feeling well, he had a slight fever coz his body was quite warm.. he slept till about 10 and he apologized coz he was unable to bring me to the event.. I was quite sad but I'll live.. and hey, the internet (especially Google) is a powerful place! check out Chester performing a new song!
oh my hubby, lapar eh? hehehe.. our next stop was the Big Bad Wolf Booksale at Mines Convention Centre.. the place was craaaaaaazy packed with people! walking an aisle trying to find good books was so hard, and I tend to peek into other peoples boxes or carrying case, just to see if I can spot any interesting books.. but honestly, even though the prices are cheaper than before, the choices just suck, flat out sucks.. they focus a lot on fiction books and stuff, not that interesting.. I spent 1 RM 50 voucher, just to have a shot at the prizes they would give to students who use their BB1M voucher.. I didn't want to waste the vouchers on books that I might never read, so hubby and I left after an hour..
we made our way to Putrajaya for the Ekspo Buku Islam and reached around 6.40pm.. there were quite a lot of choices from different companies and a few caught me and my husbands attention, so we spent RM100 in form of BB1M voucher.. plus there were discounts everywhere, so it was exciting to spend money there.. we also bought CD's of zikir and salawat to be played in the car, you know, to increase our salawat count.. the crowd wasn't that good tho, I guessed it was due to Maghrib time.. I noticed a lot more people came after 7.30pm and the place started to be a bit crowded.. it was nice to see people, especially women, wearing proper clothing that covers their aurah.. :) yeah, not all of them, but it's a start to a great change, if they stay on path, insyaAllah..
ain't this pretty? the hall of the Islamic books is on the right
so the start of Sunday was at 10am in the morning where I was supposed to attend the Grand Opening of Muslimah Clothing Boutique at Section 7, Shah Alam.. this was a private event, and I PAID for the ticket, and I was allowed to bring another person along.. I asked my sister to come with me, and she said yes.. so Intan was supposed to take the LRT to Sri Petaling and I'd pick her up there and make our way to Shah Alam.. lull and behold, she woke up late and her sis-in-law decided to send her to the train station.. it sounds like a good plan, but not when the driver doesn't even know where the station is! OMG it was a mess! I was freaking out like crazy while my husband tried to calm me down.. I was so stressed when Intan called saying they were lost and were gonna wait at The Store somewhere in Sri Petaling.. honestly speaking, I cried just from sheer frustration (it's that time of the month anyway, soooooo.. :D)
we made it almost in time, Wardina hasn't spoken yet.. pheww!~ after checking in, we took our places at the last row on the right, near the clothes.. actually, not near the clothes, next to them.. the place was already packed with women so there wasn't any choices left anyway.. I found a jar full of these signs so I just snapped some photos while the MC was rambling on about something..
yes, I've gotten bigger and rounder after marriage, what's your point?
so the event layout was like the photos below.. for me everything was okay, but there were a few things that kinda went wrong that the organizers should have looked into before the event even started.. it's not that I want to make them look bad, but this is kinda basic in any events.. so those who want to have events, take notes, don't do this..
1) the air-conditioning was not working.. people were sweating their armpits off, especially those far from the fans.. there were mothers who brought along their kids, 1 - 5 years old and they were crying because of the heat.. it was not cool man, not cool at all..
2) the "stage" was not placed on a higher platform.. those at the back (like me) were not able to see the guest speakers and it kinda bothered me.. I mean, I paid to see them, and I can't see them.. what does that say about the program to you?
3) the microphone was faulty.. throughout the whole event, from begin till the end, the mic would break up while the speaker or mc or whoever was talking on it.. I can't focus to everything they say or share, coz the mics were faulty.. is it really that hard to test the mics properly before the program started?
4) the seating arrangement was too close to each other and hard to move in and out of an aisle.. during the break, refreshments were provided which consists of marshmallow and fruits covered in chocolate, cupcakes, biscuits, lollipop, mee hoon goreng, etc.. the food were fine (sort of) but since the seating arrangements were too close to each other, it made it difficult for everyone to take the food then return back to their seats.. plus the seats were also near to the clothes, and I saw a kid hold the clothes with his dirty hands after he ate some marshmallow with chocolates.. I pity the owner of that jubah..
I met Wardina during the break, she's so cute! :) the queue to take pictures with her was so long and being a nice person, Wardina would talk to some of the people, hence making the others waiting to I took photos with her had to hold their breathes.. and it was so freaking hot, without the air conditioning and all.. but Intan sucks with cameras so my picture ended up being blur.. grrrrr!~
Wardina left after the break, and Fitri Aulia took over where she shared her ideas and fashion senses.. she also did a demo for shawl wearers.. it was nice and all, but honestly speaking, it was super duper hot in there.. Fitri Aulia was also sweating, you can see the sweat dripping down the sides of her face and she would wipe them away with the back of her hands while doing the demo..
in the afternoon around 2PM, the grand opening came to an end meaning the Tubung Labuh Carnival began.. I didn't take any photos coz it was too hot and I was unable to breath properly.. so many people, so little space to walk, still no air conditioning some more.. but I grabbed 2 blouses and a shawl that costs around RM140++ after 30% discount.. the clothes were of high quality, for that I applaud the boutique.. :)
the area at Shah Alam was filled with the boutiques and shops selling muslimah clothings, lots of choices to choose from and the place is filled with blog shops.. I saw RinaSalleh and SugarScarf at the area.. I also found out that HattaDolmat is also there.. hahaha.. so yeah, I'm planning of going there again once my pay is in later on.. hohoho..
till then, have an awesome weekend ahead everyone! ^_^
