Muslim women caned in Malaysia - my view vs. Americans view

Mood : opinionated

Assalamualaikum, good afternoon awesome peeps!.. initially, I wanted to blog about my experience at Nuffnang HQ but I think that would have to wait a bit..

this morning while I was searching for pictures of poor Malaysian women for my part time job as a Research Assistant, I came across a picture related to 3 Malaysian women who were caned early this year.. and they were Muslims.. part of the article caught my attention so I clicked on the link to read the article in whole.. it wasn't an article per say, but was a question posted on a website called SodaHead, which is all about opinions.. and truth be told, it was quite opinionated.. it was written by an American guy regarding the canning done on the 3 women, and how he wondered if they were brainwashed.. what got me riled up to write this blogpost is not much coz of the guy, but of the comments left under the article..

printscreen from SodaHead

what was he talking about?.. read the article below from 'Malaysia-today'..

17th February 2010, (AFP) - Malaysia said Wednesday that three women have been caned under Islamic law for having extramarital sex, in a first for the Muslim-majority country.

Officials said the three women were caned on February 9 at a women's prison outside the capital Kuala Lumpur after being convicted of "khalwat" or "close proximity" between an unmarried couple.

"I hope this will not be misunderstood until it defiles the purity of Islam," Home Minister Hishammuddin Hussein said according to state media.

"The punishment is to teach and give a chance to those who have fallen off the path to return and build a better life in future," he said, adding that none of the three sustained any injuries.

Hishammuddin said the three women and four men were caned following a December decision in the religious courts -- which operate in parallel to the civil system in Malaysia.

He said one woman was released from prison last Sunday while another will be freed in several days and the third will be released in June.

and this is an article from another source which the writer took an article from MailOnline..

February 20th, 2010 - Three Muslim women who were the first in Malaysia to be caned for having sex outside marriage this morning claimed the punishment was an opportunity for them to repent.

Prison authorities caned the women last week after an Islamic Shariah court issued the penalty.

The caning has outraged rights groups and revived speculation that conservative Islamists, who advocate harsh punishment, are gaining influence in the country.

The three women, aged 17-25, said they turned themselves in after feeling guilty for sleeping with their boyfriends before marriage and getting pregnant.

Malaysian justice: Prison staff demonstrate to the media how the caning process was done at the Kajang prison outside Kuala Lumpur

The 17-year-old told reporters that she surrendered to Islamic authorities after her prematurely born child died.

She is now serving a six-month prison sentence.

‘I know I have sinned, and I have to be punished. Strangely however, I felt that the caning was not a form of punishment but was an opportunity for me to repent and return to the right path,’ she said.

She has already married her boyfriend, who has also been caned and jailed over the offence.

The other women, who have one young child each, are planning to marry their partners after they are released.

The men were also caned for having sex.

One woman, aged 25, said she was scared before the caning but knew she deserved the punishment.

All three women called on others not to make the same mistake and abstain from sex before marriage.

A Prison Department official confirmed the women’s comments, made at a news conference at the women’s prison outside Kuala Lumpur to local, government-linked media under the watch of authorities.

He said they were reluctant to speak to other media.

It could not be confirmed whether they were speaking voluntarily. request with the department for interviews is pending.

Deputy Prime Minister Muhyiddin Yassin defended the caning this morning, saying it was ‘far lighter’ than what some people might imagine.

‘The punishment is legitimate and in accordance with the law,’ Muhyiddin said.

Human rights groups have slammed the caning, saying it is a cruel and degrading punishment and discriminates against Muslim women because Malaysian civil law – which applies to non-Muslims – bans the caning of women.

The women, who were fully clothed and sitting on a stool, received between four and six strokes with a thin rattan stick on the back, lasting a few minutes.

Malaysia has a two-tier justice system.

Shariah courts deal with personal matters for Muslims, who account for about two-thirds of the country’s 28 million people, while non-Muslims – many of whom are ethnic Chinese and Indians – go to civil courts.

so now you know the story.. so let's go back to the question the American guy asked on SodaHead..

he didn't really degrade anyone for the punishment, and didn't really say his stand whether he agrees or oppose, just wondering if the women were brainwashed into thinking that the punishment was good for them.. so it's just a question.. and here are some of the response from other American people.. please note, they are talking about Malaysia, Islam, and its Shari'a Law in Islam as a whole and also the law in Malaysia, so some of the things they say are quite offensive.. not all are offensive, some even gave reasons and rebuttals regarding the punishment, but please keep an open mind, they are not accustom to our religion nor culture here in Malaysia, not like the other ethnic groups in Malaysia itself..

again, keep an open mind, and also, please mind your language if you decide to comment on this post.. no cursing or degrading other peoples religion either please.. you'll find my opinion and remarks under the comments posted, agree or disagree, I don't care.. but if my facts are wrong, please enlighten me as to why I was wrong, thank you..

this is wrong on so many levels..

this is quite interesting actually, SeaShell is a Jew, and she's defending Islam.. refreshing, don't you think?.. (^^,) and the NJ Ladybug is more of a feminist.. you'll see more of her comments later on and how she 110% oppose of the punishment, from the sexist and human rights point of view lah.. take note, they both are from the States..

all I have to say is, every country, every state have their own set of laws and cultures.. in Malaysia, our main religion is Islam but we do not oppose or limit other religion from being practiced here like Christians, Catholic, Buddhism, Hinduism and others since we live in a multiracial community with the Chinese, Indians, Kadazans, Dusuns, etc.. and we are Asians who are mostly conservative in maintaining our Eastern culture and traditions, be it Malays, Chinese or Indians..

and to add on that, Islamic views and values have been in Malaysia since wayyyyyyyyy before our independence.. believe it or not, these 3 women got off easy compared to the original punishment stated in the Holy Quran.. and both men and women are punished in the case of adultery and premarital sex, not just women so it's by far biased.. the reason of canning is for repentance of their sin and also to show to the public that the sin committed was wrong and to not commit it themselves.. there is a cause to every reason and action.. you do something bad, you get the punishment, simple as that.. whether their repentance is accepted or not by Allah S.W.T. is entirely up to Him, wallahua'lam..

in regards to NJ Ladybug, it's not a new law, it's in the Holy Quran since Prophet Muhammad S.A.W.s time.. it's the way of life for Muslims, for Islam.. and no one squealed, they came out themselves because they regretted what they did and wanted to repent, no one forced them.. it has nothing to do with karma, it's the Shari'a Law.. it's only applicable to Muslims tho, so you shouldn't worry if you committed adultery in the States.. no one would care anyway.. as for the comment by aebe, I have no idea what the guy is trying to say.. (-__-;;

like I said, not a sexiest issue, not biased.. both men and women got their punishment..

it is equal, both men and women got caned, so it's equal la kan.. no sexism at all in this case.. but it took a while for everyone to know that since the press FOCUSED on the WOMEN instead of the men.. reason?.. coz it's more controversial and sells faster, DUH..

truth be told, I didn't follow the case when it was a hot controversial and debated issue in Malaysia early this year, but I have read of the given punishment and the acceptance of punishment by the 3 women.. I just don't know why everyone is riled up about it and making it into an international issue.. Islam is barbaric?.. Malaysia is barbaric?.. human rights?.. pftttttttt!!!!~~ yeah, they chose to repent in that way, they're humans, they have the rights to chose that, what does it got to do with you?.. they want to be clean in the Islamic sense, they don't want to spend too much time in Hell, they chose that punishment, that's their rights as a human being la kan?.. paham?.. okay, suddenly I'm getting all emotional.. excuse me, this is sort of a touchy subject.. (-__-;;

and here are some response from a CNN article regarding this matter.. click to enlarge, and my response to the comment is also included.. agree or disagree, I don't really care.. but if you think I'm wrong, enlighten me without cursing please.. thank you..

in Islam, men are allowed to have up to 4 wives, but it comes with condition.. they cannot simply marry for a second, third or fourth time if they are unable to support or care for all the wives either monetary, physically or emotionally.. and they must split everything equally in terms of care, respect, time, money, etc. to all their wives and children.. and frankly, not all men can perform this..

and there are also reasons why women are not allowed to have more than 1 husband.. there might be confusion and complication as to whom the child of the woman belongs to if she was to marry 4 husbands which will then result in confusion when the daughter wants to marry, as in Islam, the father will pass the daughter to the future husband trough a ceremony called 'akad nikah'.. if the said 'father' is not the real biological father, the marriage will not be accepted by Islam and they will live a life of sin due to the mix up, even if they did not know it, - wallahua'lam - and this problem will be passed down to another generation and another generation.. it will also complicate the writing of the will in terms of distribution of assets from parents when they die..

and personally, I don't mind if my future husband marry another wife, but I have my conditions too la.. hehehe.. =P

yes, the men were also caned but the media chose to not publish much about that since it's not much of a hot issue as the Muslim women caned.. obviously the article was biased and choose to only publish this side of the story more, playing on the human rights, women rights, religious believe and all the other stuff.. frankly speaking, the article showed a bad side of Islam as a religion in the eyes of non Muslims who know very little about the teachings of the religion.. and no, a woman gave out the canning, not a man..

and women are put on a high pedestal for a reason, they are sacred, their honour and dignity should be preserved, that is why we, the women cover ourselves, because we believe that.. we are a rare diamond only for 1 man, which is the husband..it's what stated in our religion, and we believe in it.. and hey, you have your own religion and believes too, am I right?.. and I do respect your religion, and I'm hoping you would respect mine too..

wow, the statement 'Islam is an evil religion' is really looking to pick a fight.. but the latter input about the 12-year-old little girls is quite disturbing.. (-__-;;

I like muslimbeautys response.. yes, I'm also a proud Muslim woman as I know and understand in what I believe in, and I would love it if you could understand that.. and no, I don't think I will be treated as a property with my husband, and I don't think I'm a second class citizen, especially in Malaysia.. from the way Nisharenee commented, I think she converted into Islam when she married her husband but experienced something not to her liking.. all I have to say is, don't base a whole religion on what a man did.. all religion have great lessons to teach, just not all followers are good students..

and so, these were from Americans point of view.. it's a very touchy subject when it comes to religion, especially Islam, as not everyone understand what it's about and how the system works.. all the world know and seem keen on believing that Islam is a terrorist religion and unfair to its women, and boy, they're so wrong.. oh well, the only way to change the world is by changing yourself, so instead of lashing out to the world, stop and think how you can improve the situation for you first.. others will follow eventually.. (^^,)

OMG, this entry is so long, I just noticed.. hahaha.. sorry bout that.. and the comments on this blogpost is going to be moderated, in case someone decides to curse and use unnecessary words and vowels.. you may comment if you choose to, share with others about your thoughts regarding this subject, but please, you civilized words, and have decent manners please..

thank you! (^^,)

8 jenis lelaki yang tidak disukai oleh aku

Mood : panas!

assalamualaikum, apa khabar wahai blog readers ku?.. menikmati hari cuti anda?.. bagus2.. hari nih aku dan keluarga telah dijemput ke 2 kenduri kawen bertempat di Jitra dan Alor Setar.. jadi hari ni aku dah melampaui diet aku yang tidak ingin memakan nasi untuk kuruskan badan.. hoho.. apapun, alhamdulillah aku dah kurang 4kg sekarang..

okay, habis bebelan di situ, jom tengok 8 jenis lelaki yang tidak disukai oleh aku ya.. dan fyi, jenis2 lelaki yang aku tak suka nih, juga tak disukai oleh wanita secara am nya.. jadi untuk mereka yang bergelar lelaki di luar sana, dengar lah luahan aku, seorang wanita, dan berubah la kalau nak disukai oleh wanita yek.. hoho.. =D

8 jenis lelaki yang aku tak suka

pemandu tak berhemah

walaweih, bila di atas jalan, belagak macam bawak BMW atau Mercz, tapi hakikatnya kereta Wira ja yang di pimped dengan turbo.. biasalah kalau lelaki nak make-up2 kereta nih kan, dengan sport rim lah, dengan spoiler lah, sticker ngan air brush lah.. haishhh.. tapi kira okay la, perempuan make-up muka, lelaki make-up kereta.. kalau make-up muka, kang jadik nyah pulak.. hahaha.. tapi kan, jangan la bawa kereta sampai mencecah 150km/j kat highway sampai mengundang ketidak selesaan pengguna yang lain.. dan yang paling tak boleh blah, bila nak corner, haremmm tak bagi signal belok pun, biarkan pemandu menunggu kau yang macam siput nak belok.. memang sangat tak berhemah.. haihhh..

double parking

untuk pengguna kereta di kawasan-kawasan berpenduduk yang tinggi macam KL tu, mesti sangat paham dengan situasi nih.. dari pemerhatian aku, kebanyakan yang mengamalkan double parking adalah lelaki.. ada jugak perempuan, tapi lelaki adalah majoriti.. bagi aku lah kan, nak double parking tu okay, tak kisah sangat, asalkan driver ada kat dalam kereta.. bila kereta dalam parking space nak keluar, boleh ja ubah kereta tu, tapi nih tak.. tinggalkan kereta di belakang kereta lain untuk berjam jam lamanya, dan bila kereta sendiri kena toreh, marah tak ingat dunia.. perghh.. aku memang tak suka lelaki yang double parking..

mat rempit

sangat common di Malaysia, rempit merata-rata.. tapi korang tau tak ramai orang tak suka korang?.. walaweih, macam aku nih kan, pemandu kereta, paling MELUAT tengok mat rempit nih.. bawak moto macam s**l, belok kanan kiri tak tengok orang lain, tak endahkan keselamatan sendiri dan orang lain, buat jalan macam mak bapak dia punya.. kalau kau mati, tau tak menyusahkan orang lain, lagi2 orang yang langgar kau?.. haishhh.. kalau lelaki tu tak rempit pun, dia tak pakai tali keledar kat helmet.. pandai pandai dah sebab pakai helmet, tapi bodoh sebab tak pakai tali keledar kat helmet tuh.. kalau kau exsiden, kepala kau tu keras mana sangat dowh?.. haishhh..

merokok

yang nih aku memang tak suka dari kecik, kau cakap pi la apa pun, aku memang tak suka lelaki yang merokok.. memang la, tu hidup kau, suka hati kau la nak buat apa pun kan?.. kau yang tak kisah nak mati awal, kau yang tak kisah nak mati pucuk, kau yang tak kisah nak dapat barah atau kanser, tapi jangan la isap rokok depan aku dowh!.. aku tak nak mati awal, aku nak kawen, aku nak ada anak, aku nak hidup lama, jadi tolong lah jangan rokok depan aku.. pegi rokok jauh2, pegi bunuh diri jauh2 dari aku boleh?.. aku BENCI lelaki merokok! dah sepanjang aku hidup nih, aku memang tak pernah terima lelaki yang merokok sebagai pakwe aku.. kawan tu boleh, tapi kalau kau isap rokok, chances are, kau hanya akan kekal sebagai kawan aku.. dan tolong pegi jauh2 bila kau nak isap rokok, boleh?..

garang dan tak reti berterima kasih

okay, garang bertempat, aku tak kisah.. contoh:- abang yang marah adik dia keluar rumah pakai seksi2, lelaki yang marah awek dia yang tak pakai tudung, itu garang bertempat lah kan.. tapi nih tak, garang yang melampau2.. tanya soalan, kau jerkah dan tengking.. nasihat sikit, terus mulut kumat kamit dok sumpah seranah.. nak minta tolong sket, melenting gila.. pantang nak mampus dari tolong orang lain kan, kononnya kau sibuk, banyak kerja, tapi bila sendiri ada masalah, gedik2 datang kat aku buat muka kesian.. bila aku tolong, kau tak ucap terima kasih pun.. hey, bukan nak ungkit apa aku buat untuk kau, tapi berterima kasih la sikit, dan kalau aku ada masalah, tolong la sket.. bukan aku nak suruh kau bagi aku 1 juta pun, tolong jumper kereta aku yang tak boleh start ja.. kau kan jantan, tolong la sket!

panas baran

aku rasa tak ada seorang manusia di atas muka bumi nih suka lelaki yang panas baran pun kan? betul?.. apa, kau suka?.. okay, kau sewel sket, harap maklum.. lelaki yang panas baran lebih cenderung untuk mengangkat tangan dan kaki bila marah, termasuk juga baling2 barang.. garang tu satu, pukul orang tu satu.. aku paling benci bila baca kes lelaki pukul isteri, orang tua dan kanak2, memang mulut sumpah seranah la aku time tu kan.. lelaki, tugas anda adalah untuk melindungi mereka yang memerlukan, yang lemah dari anda, umumnya wanita, orang tua dan kanak2.. jadi buat la tugas anda, nih apahal pulak main pukul2 orang bila marah nih?.. lelaki, tolong jangan panas baran bila baca nih okay?.. =D

emo kalahkan perempuan

wahahaha, yang nih paling tak boleh blah!.. aku ada pengalaman dengan lelaki yang emo terlebih nih masa zaman kolej dulu, nasib baik tak couple dengan kau!.. hahaha.. =D aku bagi perhatian lebih sket kat laptop, kat adik angkat, kat kawan2, dia nak emo terlebih.. bila aku tak angkat telefon time dia call or lambat reply sms dia, merajuk tak tentu pasal.. bila gaduh, terus cakap kasar guna panggilan aku kau, dan panggil aku nama kurang ajar macam s**l dan b**i.. bila aku independent dan tak bergantung pada dia, dia tak puas hati.. wahahahaha, emo terlebih kan?.. dan aku tak suka lelaki yang emo lebih2 macam nih.. jadi semua lelaki di luar sana, jangan emo terlebih ya, tu kerja perempuan.. hahaha.. =DD

berfikiran lucah

kau paham2 la sendiri maksud nih, boleh?.. kalau kau dah kawen, tahniah, dah halal.. yang belum kawen, PUASA weih!.. pastu kumpul duit untuk kawen, halalkan apa yang haram.. senang..

sekian, itu 8 jenis lelaki yang aku tak suka.. berapa ramai yang sokong aku weih?.. dan kaum lelaki, apa jenis wanita yang korang tak suka pulak?.. kalau kau dah buat, sila inform aku, aku nak baca.. dan kaum wanita, kalau ada apa2 kau nak tambah, sila sila!

sekian, terima kasih! (^^,)

kalau nak cantik macam model dan pelakon, baca nih..

Mood : woh!

assalamualaikum semua, selamat siang.. hoho.. pagi yang cerah dan ceria bukan?.. well, kalau kat tempat kau hujan, mesti la tak cerah kan.. aku rasa sihat dan bahagia sikit hari nih.. semalam aku sedih, nangis2 atas katil peluk teddy bear sambil isap jari, tapi hari nih aku ceria dan bersyukur.. kenapa?.. sebab setelah aku luahkan hati dan perasaan dalam entri nih, semakin ramai yang rajin untuk tolong vote aku.. dari 12 vote ke 23 vote.. thank you so so much.. nampaknya aku masih disayangi oleh rakan2 di Facebook.. terima kasih daun keladi, tolong lah vote lagi.. sebab aku perlukan lagi banyak vote untuk selamat berada di top 5, sekurang-kurangnya sampai votes untuk aku lebih dari 110 votes.. kau tolong aku, boleh?..

okay lah, aku nak citer pasal topik aku tu.. bila kita bercakap tentang kecantikan, ramai ingat hanya model atau pelakon kat tv yang kurus lampai dan tinggi 170cm ke atas ja yang boleh ditafsirkan sebagai cantik.. yang hingus sememeh selekeh macam kawan kau kat kelas dan ofis tu tak cantik pun.. tetapi benar kah ia begitu?.. pergh, skema ayat..

jawapan aku, TIDAK sama sekali.. semua ciptaan Tuhan adalah cantik, tak kira agama, warna kulit atau bangsa.. semua cantik dengan cara yang tersendiri.. ada yang cantik di luar, ada yang cantik di dalam.. tapi pokok, buah dan dahannya di sini, semua adalah cantik, terutamanya wanita.. tetapi, tak semua wanita dilahirkan dengan kecantikan luaran.. bagaimana untuk menjadi cantik jika dilahirkan dengan gigi jonggang, badan gemuk, rambut keras macam dawai?..

senang saja.. daftarkan diri dengan EXTREME MAKEOVER crew, dan mereka mampu mengubah anda dari ugly duckling ke beautiful swan!.. semuanya mampu diperbaiki, baik kegemukan, hidung senget atau bontot kurang mantap.. cuba lihat mereka di bawah ini..

klik untuk tumbesaran

mereka asalnya tak menarik langsung, dengan muka pucat, buahdada kecik dan gigi jongang semua.. tapi setelah mendapat sentuhan, rabaan, dan pertukaran from Extreme Makeover crew, terus cantik macam model dan pelakon.. lepas tu bila dah cantik, mula la nak pakai baju seksi seksi bikin lelaki terliur dengan belahan melampau.. okay kaum lelaki, tengok untuk 10 saat ja, jangan lama2.. haha..

bagaimana mereka cantik?.. oh wahai rakan-rakan ku sekalian.. kita sekarang hidup dalam dunia yang serba moden.. walaupun cara tradisional tetap diamalkan, namun terdapat pelbagai perbaharuan yang dijalankan oleh ahli sains dan pengkaji.. kalau kau gemuk tapi malas nak exercise dan diet, sila lah buat liposuction untuk sedut lemak2 kau yang degil tu.. kalau hidung kau senget, pegi buat plastic surgery untuk center balik hidung kau.. kalau rambut kau keras macam dawai, pegi la salon rambut untuk buat treatment.. macam tu lah.. paham?

bila kita bercakap tentang hukum Islam dan sebagainya, mestilah pembedahan plastik jatuh kepada haram.. tapi ada kelonggaran untuk hukum nih.. kalau kau malu dengan hidung kau yang senget sebab kena belasah dengan awek sebelah rumah sebab tumpang sidai baju kat ampaian dia, pegi la buat plastic surgery, sebab tu bukan hidung asal kau.. tapi nih pendapat aku ja la, tak pasti kalau betul atau tak.. ada sesiapa boleh tolong terangkan hukum buat plastic surgery?.. thank you..

tapi apa pun, bersyukurlah dengan ciptaan Tuhan, anda sudah cantik dan sempurna dan sihat segala anggota badan.. ada lagi manusia yang tidak pernah melihat dunia, yang tidak pernah mendengar, yang tidak pernah merasa sentuhan.. jadi kita yang sempurna nih, haruslah bersyukur.. tetapi tidak salah untuk menjadi yang lebih baik, bukan?.. (^^,)

p/s :- sila lah singgah di sini untuk membuat akaun, kemudian ke sini untuk vote entri aku.. tarikh tutup malam nih.. tolong luangkan 5 minit untuk create account dan vote untuk aku ya.. kerjasama anda amat diperlukan dan dihargai.. terima kasih rakan-rakan ku!

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bintang bersinar~~

why should we support 1Malaysia?

Mood : hungry

morning awesome peeps..

I have a Basic Entrepreneurship final exam today at 2.30pm at TE, UUM..

I'm not really prepared, but okay lah, not that worried..

but just in case, pray for my success..

(^^,)

now back to the topic at hand..

why should we support 1Malaysia?..

because regardless of ethnicity nor religion, we are 1..

it's that simple..

everyone goes about saying how proud they are to be a Malaysian citizen with diversified culture and race, but do they really tolerate and get along with others?..

I've seen Chinese and Indians get into fights, Malay and Chinese get into fights, and Indian and Malays too..

we should not be like this..

I'd like to take an example of my brother-in-law's family situated in Selangor, quite close to Batu Caves..

the neighbour on the left is Indian, and they get along just fine..

the neighbours in front of them is Chinese, and they also get along just fine..

and they even share a few laughs together..

see, this is how it's supposed to be..

1Malaysia..

you know, since I was involved in SIFE UUM, I really have gotten close with other races..

I admit, I was one of the said citizens who didn't tolerate and get along with other races when I was younger..

but that has changed now..

I love all my Chinese and Indian friends, even my international friends..

it's amazing what we can learn from one another..

I'm even learning Mandarin again!

hehehe..

me, Aevin and YiChin representing SIFE UUM 1Malaysia..

picture curtsy of SOGO STUDIO Photography..

SIFERS UNITE!

so ask yourself this, are you 1Malaysia?..

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shining star~~

Kenapa gadis cantik pilih untuk bertudung..

Situasi 1:-

Ain : "wah Syira, dah bertudung sekarang, nampak cun melecun gila!.. pesal kau tiba-tiba pakai tudung weih?.. mimpi apa?"

Syira : "aku dah dapat hidayah Ain, aku takut dengan Allah.. aku taknak masuk neraka lama2.. cukup la dengan dosa-dosa lalu yang aku buat.. aku insaf sekarang.."

Ain : "bagus la kalau macam tu, alhamdulillah.."

Situasi 2:-

Mira : "pewitt, awek cun bertudung!.. apa kes babe nak bertudung-bertudung nih?.. dulu kau tak macam nih pun, pakai seksi2.. nih pakai tudung ngan baju kurung pulak.. apa kes?.."

Diana : "hehehe.. aku dah tinggalkan semua tu.. aku dah nak kawen la, aku nak jadi isteri yang terbaik untuk suami aku.. perangai buruk aku dulu aku dah tinggalkan.. sampai bila nak leka dengan dunia?.."

Mira :" wah, bagusnya kau.. tahniah tahniah!.."

Situasi 3:-

Syida : "woh, Tish!.. kau pakai tudung!! tak pecaya aku!.. apesal weih?!"

Tish : "ish, diam lah kau!.. aku bukan nak sangat pakai tudung, tapi terpaksa.."

Syida : "loh, apesal plak?"

Tish: "amoi kat saloon rambut tu ingat aku jantan pastu pegi botakkan kepala aku!.. jadi sekarang kena pakai tudung lah sampai rambut tumbuh balik.."

Syida : "wahahahahahahahah!!~~ XDDDD"

Situasi 4:-

Dana : "OMG, kawanku dah berubah alim!!.. haha.. apesal weih?"

Linda : "bising ah kau.. mak aku paksa.. dia tak suka kaler rambut aku.."

Dana : "kau kaler rambut kau?.. warna apa?.."

Linda : "kaler hijau.. mak aku kata buat malu kat jiran ja.. paksa aku pakai tudung.. hmphh!.."

Linda : "hahahaha.. aku simpati weih!"

dalam dunia ni, manusia diberi banyak pilihan..

tapi sebelum tu, kita diberi pendidikan oleh ibu bapa, keluarga, guru-guru..

untuk menilai yang baik dan yang buruk..

dan sekarang kita dah tahu untuk menilai..

jadi kita akan diberi pilihan, sama ada nak pilih yang baik atau yang buruk..

tak kisah la sekiranya kita telah melakukan kesilapan di masa lalu, tapi yang penting, kita sedar kesalahan dan bertaubat serta ingin berubah..

ya, ia bukan mudah untuk berubah, untuk meninggalkan tabiat lama, tapi sampai bila kita hendak hanyut dengan dunia yang akan kiamat nih?..

fikir-fikirkan lah..

untuk renungan bersama..

p/s :- cerita dan nama adalah rekaan semata-mata..

dan gambar semua adalah ikhsan encik google..

langsung tak berkaitan dengan citer ya..

=)

say NO to THEM!

Mood : liberal

hey ho awesome peeps, how was your weekend?..

I hope you had a great time relaxing at home or going out with your friends, or whatever you guys did..

and I hope you had fun doing those activities, and didn't waste much money..

if you did, next time send the money to me, to help people in need, which is ME!

hahahahaha..

=DD

well anyway, since I'm studying in UUM, Kedah, my weekend starts on Friday, not the usual Saturday..

I spent it on half a day of makeup workshop held by MISC residential hall, UUM..

wasn't that great, but it was okay I guess..

loads of women turned up for the event, almost a full house..

lots of Malay and Chinese, Indians being a minor..

among all these beautiful birds, were 4 flightless birds, the softies..

believe me, they were an eyesore..

in an ocean of women, they -the 4 'men'- stuck out like a sore thumb..

I clearly loath them for being there..

I'm not being judgmental..

I don't mind if the guy is a softy yet straight, but putting on makeup??

that's just taking it too far!

putting on powder, eyeshadow and lip gloss, holding a handbag and doing catwalks?

what the hell is that??!

next thing you know, they'll end up like this..

they may look pretty, but they are artificial..

they are FAKE, people!

don't be fooled..

they aren't original, no matter how hard they tried..

no botox, plastic surgery or hormone pills will change you into a woman..

you're still a guy, through and through..

so act like one!

with the depleting number of men out there, finding a straight guy is hard due to 'men' like these..

'they' tend to target straight men on social websites like Facebook, MySpace, Tagged, and even blogs..

some even have no feeling of shame and approach guys point blank..

'they' somehow made it a goal to change straight men to gays, especially handsome or cute guys..

hence the reason Holloywood is now filled with 'them'..

but I'm not concerned about them Holloywood artists, they'll be ashes anyway..

but the Asians, it's not the way of life here, it goes against so many religion, not just Islam..

please find your way back, life is too short to make this mistake..

I don't know why I had the sudden urge to post this topic..

but I guess I had to, keeping it bottled up did no good..

and I had an inspiration when I read Fatul's blog post somewhere similar to this topic..

oh, not to mention Syahir regarding being bothered by gays..

fyi, they are guys and they're hating it..

well guess what, we girls hate it more..

from my observation and reading, the reasons these 'men' turned this way were:-

1) rejected by women they loved

2) betrayed by women

3) born with the instincts

4) being a woman has more choices

5) want to be understood and loved

this is based on my reading and observation..

but between you me, these are pretty much LAME excuses..

so what a girl dumps you, big deal..

move on la..

as they say, 'there are more than one fish in the sea..'

errr, wait, I think fishes are not the best example here..

hahahaha..

well, you get my point..

=DD

I myself have been dumped and rejected by men somewhere in my life, but you don't see me turning into a lesbian, now do you?..

it comes back down to choices..

if you choose to be gay or a shemale, then you choose your future that way..

you can't blame instincts, you can't blame anyone..

it's the choice YOU made..

so now, choose to be straight again..

I personally know a guy how was gay and a shemale previously, but now turned straight..

he even has a girlfriend and living happily..

see?..

it's a CHOICE..

life itself is a choice..

so choose wisely..

(^^,)

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shining star~~

early morning observation

Mood : nyum nyum nyum

eve of raya..

things I observed in the early hours of the morning around 2.30am..

note - AM

men with pimped cars tend to have a race along the lonely roads of the city..

guys with motorcycles tend to 'rempit' the roads of the city..

police patrol cars tend to do their rounds when the pimped cars and motorcycles are gone..

the male species are the majority who are out of the house during this time..

things men buy at 7-Eleven in the early morning :-

1) cigarette

2) cigarette

3) cigarette

4) cigarette

5 ) cigarette

6 ) topup

7) topup

8) topup

9) water

10 ) junk food

men don't go out alone in the early morning..

men find it weird to see a car with 3 female species in the morning..

they also don't mind staring at us..

men don't mind riding on their motorcycle wearing only a boxer and t-shirt..

END OF OBSERVATION

no, I wasn't out in the wee hours of the morning for nothing..

I went to pick up my sisters, Aini and Intan who came back from KL..

I went to Jitra with my mum n my lil sis, Wahida..

we waited next to the roadside, parked in front of 7-Eleven Jitra..

thus my observation was created..

well, I'm off..

my family might be going to Kuala Perlis for seafood after Asar..

nyum nyum, sotong tepung goreng!

anyone wanna come with?..

(^^,)

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