Monday, July 6, 2009

my dream guy.. is it YOU?

Mood : sharing is caring~~

it's 8.22 am..

I'm really sleepy now but I decided to post an entry before taking a nap..

(-_-) zzZ

currently watching 'Deliver Me' on Astro Channel 733, Home and Health..

the babies are so cute!

I wanna have one..

like, seriously..

I wanna share with you guys something..

I want to get married when I turn 23..

about 2 years from now..


coz I want to be a young mother!

so that when I'm 48, my eldest son or daughter would be 23, probably married too..

and I wanna have 5 children, and they must be 2 years apart..

but if I get more than 5, I'll happily take it..

the more the merrier!


you guys must think I'm crazy right?..

23 years old?..

married at such a young age?..

while studying nonetheless..

this girl must be CRAZY!!!


don't worry, I'm not mad at you for having such thoughts..

when it comes to the future, we paint our own according to our taste, right?..

so it doesn't matter what others think of me, as long as I'm happy..


being married at 23 is one thing, but who will I marry?..

who's the lucky guy?.. (or unlucky, if you hate me.. lol!)

well, sadly, I haven't found Mr. Husband yet..

I've had several candidates, but none that I see my future with..

as much as I wanna get married at 23, I'm not going to randomly select a guy..

he has to be the right one for me, coz I only want to get married once!


so here's my list of MY Mr. Husband..

1. he must be someone who practice Islamic teachings well.. someone who can guide me to be a better person, a better women, for now and hereafter..

2. he must be a humorous person, someone who can make me laugh and smile.. a person who is pleasurable to be with..

3. he must respect my family and older people.. I hate disrespectful people, seriously..

4. he must be someone who DOES NOT smoke.. I despise smokers, I loath them.. I don't want a killer as my husband..

5. I want someone who understands me, and respects my thoughts and opinions.. and believe me, I have a LOT of opinions.. hahaha!!

6. he doesn't have to be model-like handsome, just pleasant to look at.. and preferably with a nice smile.. (^^,)

7. he must come from a good family and has a good family background..

8. he must be educated, at least at Degree level.. this is to secure my future in terms of Mr. Husband finding a well paid job..

9. and I prefer a guy who can talk in English fluently, or at least conversational level.. this is in order to fit better with my English talking family.. (^^,)

10. a person with a charming personality in general..

well, there you go..

now you know my preferences..

if you think you might be my Mr. Husband, leave a feedback..

who knows kan?..

we might get married in two years time!









shining star~~


ichiban | いちばん said...

wow.. besarnye cita2.. haha 23??? serius?? huhuhu cepat ek.. x pe la bagus la cam tu.. cpt cari calon.. haha.. mesti ko cari lagi tua dr ko kn.. sbb lelaki selalunye kene cari duit dulu dah penuh cari harta.. baru kawin.. and that time kawin ngan yg muda2 la.. haha aku bajet pon kawin 35... huhuhu

Just_najmiE said...


yep, 23 years old.. (^^,) age is just a number.. klau it's my jodoh to marry someone older, I'll take it.. but he has to fulfill the requirements dlu la, my mum.. she must approve my future husband.. hehehe.. (^^,)

ala, laki tak kisah kawen umur brapa kan?..

Fina said...

so what if 23 pun kan? kalau saya hbs awal dan dapat kumpul duit awal pun sy pon nak kawen awal jugak. haha.

Just_najmiE said...


hahaha!.. kawen awal la best, dosa kurang.. lalala~~

mari kita ramai2 kawen awal!.. hahaha..

Anonymous said...

najmie, saya nk tanya ckit...
yg no 7 tu boleh kawal ka?

ada sesetengah org dia ok tp ahli keluarga dia atau relative dia belum pasti lg...

mmgla kita nk kawin ngan dia dan keluarga dia termasuk sekali...

tp sesetengah family member atau relative dlm keluarga dia mungkin tak ikut cara pemikiran kita...

najmie nk kena kenal dgn family member bakal dulu ka utk tahu no 7 ni?

apa opinion najmie dalam hal ni?

kerol said...

wahhhh....skdr antar commnet jer bleh jd calon suami...bgus nyer promosi bgus ker kawen awl??org muda slalu nyer ada drh muda yg cpt mndidih...rite??xker kecoh skit rumhtgga 2??

Just_najmiE said...


no 7, he must come from a good family and has a good family background..

yes, mmg betul bila kita kawen, not just him but also with his family.. sbb tu kena make sure family tu stabil, at least got no penagih dadah or criminals.. yg paling penting skali, make sure dlm family tu tak ada kronik illness yg boleh diwarisi oleh anak2 nnt mcm asma or tekanan darah tinggi or rendah.. klau yg sikit2 tu takpa la.. curable kan..

yes, I would get to know the family first before marrying the guy.. yg penting, my mum approves of him and his family.. looks is second, tp klau dpt husband yg hensem ok gak, coz nnt anak2 pon mesti hensem2 belaka!.. hahaha..

the point is, smua nih bergantung pada individu kan.. klau dh sygkn someone, kdg2 kita buta pd kelemahan diri dia.. yg paling penting, JGN KAWEN LARI!.. hahahaha.. :D :D :D

Anonymous said...

anonymous (treetopkhaka) to najmie:>

bagus2...jawapan munasabah...

c u later...:)

Just_najmiE said...


uwaaa, mana da calon meh.. hahaha.. for me, kawen muda nih bagus.. kurang dosa berdating2 nih, begayut kat telefon 24 jam n ber-YM.. lg jauh dr fitnah klau kawen awal kan..

pasal darah muda tu, kena la pandai control.. n like me, I want a husband yg bkn panas baran or kaki pukul.. and I will not hesitate to go to the police and report on domestic violence if I was beaten by my husband..

tp mintak simpang la!.. I want a happy life with a caring a lovable husband.. (^^,)

Just_najmiE said...


hahahaha!!.. c u later too.. (^^,)

feshnie said...

You...dream too much. Even if you want a good husband, you also have to be good. Are you good enough to have the husband of your dreams?
It doesn't matter if you say, 'I want my husband to lead me, teach me, guide me, etc' us women also need to know our place.
It's not my place yet to say stuff like this but I remembered my ustazah saying this to me so I'm passing it to you. You already know anyway, right?
I'm thinking of waiting for a bit before getting married.
26 isn't such a big number is it?

kerol said...

wahhh...kira nyer nk suami yg sygkn awk jer lar nie...klu mrh pun xleh pkul2 awk...hehehe..bgus2...agk b'pndgn klu lihat dri segi lain...yg awk kta pnyakit kronik 2...hmm..asma bkn pnyakit kronik....klu awk mmilih cm2..kcian kt org yg ada asma n ttiba dia sukakan awk....kcian dia.....sbb org yg ada pnyakit kronik 2 lg pndai jga anak n awk biler awk sakit...sbb dia tau cmna prasaan sakit 2..seumur hidup dia tnggung sakit 2...rite??

sHaH said...

4. he must be someone who DOES NOT smoke.. I despise smokers, I loath them.. I don't want a killer as my husband.

apparently, i did not fit becoz of this citeria. hahahhaa..

kalo tak da lama ngorat..

Just_najmiE said...


yeah2, I know laa.. ufufufufu~~
26 is a big number in my opinion.. use 25, it's less by a year.. harharhar.. :D

Just_najmiE said...


it's not a matter of my husband taking care of my sick child, it's the matter of my child's sickness inherited from my husband.. ada ja org yg kronik asma, pegi mana2 kena bwk inhaler.. kira kronik la tuh for me..

kesian for them is one thing, but protecting the health of my future children is the most important.. apa gunanya being with someone yg sentiasa sakit dan mungkin berjangkit pd diri dan anak2 kan?..

but in the end, it comes down to the individual, whether to take that risk or not.. (^^,)

Just_najmiE said...


uii, nk ngorat ka?.. hahaha.. too bad u smoke, coz I really2 can't stand smokers.. sorry dude..

friends ya?.. (^^,)

k & z said...

Saya rasa kita same age but i would love to settle down bila dah settle everything, I mean dah capai cita2 smua la, sbb I am not sure about being a career wife/mom.. hahaha i would be a houswife afta that.. btw, good luck with ur future neee..

feshnie said...

Seobang said 8 to 10 years.
Finish degree first

intan said...

gud luck...

Just_najmiE said...

k & z..

I understand.. hehehe.. it comes down to individual, doesn't it?.. (^^,)

thanks!.. good luck with your future too..

Just_najmiE said...


muahahahaha!!.. you'll get OLD.. lalalala~~

I plan to get married during degree.. kinda like mum.. (^^,)

Just_najmiE said...


gomawo!!.. (^^,)

Anonymous said...

kawin awal ..... lalalalalala ~_~


lepas nih ley arr wat topik kawin awal Vs kawin lewat implikasinye ^_^

ape2 pun gud luck
nnt dh kawin jgn lupe jemput aq :P

Just_najmiE said...


hahaha, maybe not kot.. cam tak best ja topik tu.. lalala~~

nih sapa ek?.. tinggalkan nama la, easy for me to invite dtg kenduri nnt.. hahaha!

♥ cik intanurulfateha ♥ said...

.gud luck! :)

Just_najmiE said...

cik intanurulfateha..

waa, pnjg nama.. hehehe.. thanks for da wish.. (^^,)

Kotak Hati said...

merancang masa depan nampaknya..
who is the lucky guy?

Just_najmiE said...

kotak hati..

perancangan masa depan itu penting.. kekekeke... currently got no one yet.. Mr Husband is still out there, belum jumpa meh!


daph said...

Well, i can found you that :)

But just think: what do you have to offer?

If he is all you want him to be, will you be all he wants you to be?

Think about a list he could do... for exemple great personality( you have!) and cute girl (you are)... but what else can a boy would like from a girl?

Hummm Hummm enough thinking for tonight


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